Meet Calypso

Welcome,

My name is Calypso and I have been offering my somatic services to private clients for the last 6 years. As a relational dominatrix in Ojai, California, the heart of my work is supporting my clients as they find lasting, fulfilled sensual expression by giving them the tools to explore their entire erotic blueprint without shame.

What is a relational Dominatrix, you ask?

It is a system I have crafted after my 6 devotional years working with clients spanning massive stretches of demographics - time I spent curiously searching for ways to ask the right questions and creating bespoke sessions for each client. But between the various session offerings I was noticing overlaps.

I found that blending my background in Tantra, my Love of sex coaching and my passion for Domination created a very potent and specialized session space that stitches together all the areas of the erotic that endlessly interest me. We travel into the psyche to explore your kinks, unblock your blocks and give you the tools to be able to savor the gift of presence and intimacy.

Why I am so devoted to this work

I know what it is like to be told you are too much, to shrink in order to fit the conditions that make someone else feel comfortable. In my early 30’s I stopped conforming myself for the sake of others, and I watched as my connection to my inner and outer world blossomed. Since, I have experienced depths of my favorite P’s—pleasure, peace and play— that have continued to expand and nourish my entire life. I found that the meeting place of clarity, boundaries and a willingness to push upon the edges, opened the world around me.

For the past six years, sharing what I have found in my own trials of life development and weaving it with the erotic, kink and ancient wisdom, has been my work. My passion lies in inviting all parts of you — your desires, kinks, blockages, shadows, fears, insecurities, unanswered questions, queer curiosity, pleasure, wetness, crudeness, realness — to the table, so that your life can become the life that you’ve dreamed of.

I have traveled the world and sat in conversation with many wise teachers, taken courses and workshops, all to gather pieces of the picture of how to live a life that reflects the unreplicable creation that each person is. My question has always been: How to fall deeper in alignment and in Love with self and the gift of our life? Of all, my greatest teacher remains nature. Most of the tools I share with my clients were insights bestowed upon me while I was knee deep in cold ocean water or sinking into a bed of moss or opening my eyes under water in a river, only to see green. The practices I share are the rituals of my life. I extend with open hands and heart what have been gifted to me.

All beings and relationship arrangements are invited to reach out to me to work together. I have experience in non monogamy, queer and hetero relations, folks struggling with PTSD as well as members of the disabled community.

All beings will be honored here.

Thank you for being here.